Good Parenting Tips: Raising Your Child’s Self Esteem
It’s often been said that children learn what they live. So if you are wondering where to start assisting your son or daughter build positive self worth and self value, then you should let them see your confident feeling of self and high self worth. Be constructive when you talk about yourself and focus on your strong points. This will show your child that it’s okay to be proud of their talents and accomplishments.
Your son or daughter also benefits from true and positive praise. Recognize something about them to praise each day. You might give your son or daughter a exercise you know they can accomplish and then sing their praisesfor a task well done after they’re finished. Show your son or daughter that positive actions deserve positive compliments.
When your son or daughter is feeling low, frustrated or depressed, communicate truthfully, honestly and patiently with them. Listen to what they have to say without criticizing or judging. They may not really be aware of why they feel the way they do, so the time to discuss with you about it may be what’s needed to help them make sense out of a difficult situation. Where possible recommend positive conduct and preferences as resolutions, and make sure to leave the lines of communication open so they know whenever they feel badly, they can come to you for advice and know that you won’t judge or punish them for how they feel.
Teach your son or daughter the importance of setting goals and developing a plan of action to meet that goal and complete that task. Small ventures are the ideal way to start off with in the beginning. Ensure that it’s an appropriate task for your child, and not too complicated. Don’t just offer praise at the conclusion of the venture, but praise their efforts during the venture as well.
Most important of all, be sure to tell your son or daughter “I love you” every day – many times throughout the day, is even better.
When they’ve misbehaved, remind yourself that it’s not your child you disapprove of, only their bad behavior. Tuck little, cute notes in their lunch boxes or coat pockets. Very soon, they’ll learn to say “I love you” just as easily and truthfully in return.
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